Have you ever wondered, "Why am I not happy when my life looks so good?" This personal story explores how we slowly lose ourselves one decision at a time—and how we find our way back by including ourselves in our own lives again.

You're not controlling. You're bracing. And if you've ever been labeled difficult by someone who had no idea you were walking on eggshells just to keep the temperature in the room on cool — this is for you.

If you are rushing through your days with a chest full of sighs and a quiet question in the back of your mind — when did I last actually feel like myself?